When a student has a loved one die, their lives will never be the same.  They will have so much going on and will be just starting to try to establish new routines and learn a new way of living.  As a teacher or staff member at their school, you can have a positive influence on your student during this difficult time.

When Someone Important in a Student's Life Dies

     Under this link is a list of ways that you can help your student when someone important in their life has died.

Classroom Accommodations for a Grieving Student

http://erinshouse.com/new_page_7.htm

     This is a website by Erin's House for Grieving Children that lists possible classroom accommodations for a student who has come back to school after a loved one has died.

Resources for Educators

http://www.fernside.org/resource/educat.html

     This is a great link that gives an overview of how to help and support your students after they have experienced a death in their life.

What Not To Say and Do 

     A lot of times, we do not know what to do or say when we around someone who has just experienced a loved one die.  Here is a simple list of things not to do or say and the rationale behind why you should not say phrase or do the action.

Warning Signs of Unhealthy Grief

(http://www.journeyofhearts.org/jofh/grief/warnings)


     Teachers should be aware of what to look for in a student's behavior to signal something is not right.  This website will give you warning signs for suicide and unhealthy grieving in adults and youth.  If you feel that you are seeing unhealthy or suicidal behavior, do not wait and contact your school counselor immediately.